Well you never can tell with fish. Yellow-whisker just didn't seems as
healthy from the get go. The day before she died I was starting to
warn the kids she seemed ill.
We are now down to just Nia. Sure didn't
take long for the first experience with a pets death to happen thanks
to our new fish adventure.
The kids handled it well, although all differently. Youngest two
seem very unaware. My eldest is just hoping we get a new fish; maybe a
fancier one like a Beta next time.
My oldest boy, however, was the one who found her... belly up... He looked so
ash colored as he came and told me. I took one look at her and
confirmed his suspicions. He then looked really solemn. I asked if he
was okay and he shook his head 'no'. I said it was okay to be upset and
when he started to cry I grabbed him in a big hug. I assured him it is
always a hard lesson in life to learn... that life ends.
After we
hugged for a while he asked if he could go be alone in his room. He
then asked the sweetest question, so honest, "Is it okay if I am not
okay for a while? I still feel sad".
"Absolutely okay my boy", I
assured him.
For now Nia is very healthy looking so we will stick with her and when
she goes we will debate trying ONE Beta or just two new goldfish again.
TTFN
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